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5 Reasons you Have to Start Today Mama
5 Reasons you Have to Start Today Mama
I'm a Published Author?! #ForUsJrnl (And a Word from the Publisher)
I'm a Published Author?! #ForUsJrnl (And a Word from the Publisher)
Skin Care, My Way
Skin Care, My Way
Unarming Uncertainty
Unarming Uncertainty
 
 

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SWIPE!!! In light of being 2 days away from Afropunk Weekend I had to post a picture that shows the LEVEL of happy I’m feeling today. Cuz it’s LEVELS TO THIS SHIT! . . . “For Us: A Self Care Journal for Mamas” by YA GIRL is officially available for purchase on Amazon.com 🙌🏾 . . . This news came to me at the best time. It’s been a rough few days. God be knowing 🙏🏾! I’ve been consistent more than ever and my gifts are being rewarded. Keep putting yourself and your stuff into the universe! Keep planting the seed. Harvest SZN is coming baybeeeeee #madmilfy #forusjrnl #blackmoms #journaling #promptjournal #amazon #amazonbooks
My only intention was to spend time with my baby and catch up with my best friend this weekend. But America failed us (again). On our Saturday night shopping trip for the beach, a belligerent black man raised his hand to my best friend and called us every version of “bitch” that existed. It didn’t end well. _ Today at the beach a white couple was upset that the black girls (us) were sitting “too close” to them. _ It’s a sick sad world. People are OFF. No regard for women or children. I’ll continue to pray and teach my daughter right from wrong. Because I just don’t know what’s to come...
Get your tickets now to celebrate me becoming a published author 🖤 _ Tix include: A signed copy of “For Us A Self Care Journal for Mamas”🖤. . Hors d’oeuvres by @donnasdish_ (Vegan options available)🖤 . . Handcrafted cocktails (Margaritas For Mamas 💃🏾)🖤. I’ll be sharing some of my own intimate Journal entries and leading some deep discussion 🖤 _ Sip, Twerk and Chat is the vibe! I hope to celebrate with you! You can click the “Tickets” button or go directly to my website, Madmilfy.com and click “Events”. _ If you already own a #ForUsJrnl, email me at bri@madmilfy.com for your special discount code!
Almost all the women in my circle are “the strong friend” and the thing about that term is that, it’s not a real thing. . . The women in my circle are more in sync than a period. We’re in different places in the world and yet we go through shit at the same time. It may be different types of shit, but shit none the less. And that’s why we have to continue to check-in one another. . . We all have tendencies to get caught up in our own “things” INCLUDING myself. So let this be a reminder to call your “strong friend” today. And if you can, call don’t text 🖤. These days we’re so disconnected. Instead of saying “Wassup”, say, “Hey sis, I’m checking in on your head and your heart today so where you at wit it?!” . . Feel free to answer that question below boo! 🖤 PS- here is me standing with my cousin who continues to hold me up even when she’s down. I love you woman! #AintNoStrongFriendBih #CheckIn #OnYourSis #PeriodtPoo #madmilfy
I am learning to keep myself in spaces and around people that accept my authenticity. I am no longer turning down the volume of my personality, my beliefs or my thoughts. For too long I’ve given a watered down version of myself. I will not deal with people or things that make me feel like I’m hard to love. I’ve been silenced by people. No more. I am doing things that I want to do, with people I want to be with, in places and spaces that accept me with open arms. I am learning that I have to show up for myself daily, because nobody else will. Elevating mentally and spiritually 🌱🖤🌻 _ 📷: @advmkoenig
Yesterday is hard to explain. All I can say is I’m grateful. I can’t wait for next month #themamalogueseries #madmilfy
I tell her that she’s a beautiful black girl and that I love her everyday. I remind her that her 4c hair is ALL THAT! I didn’t hear those things in my house, but it doesn’t make it any less true. It did make the world a little harder for me to navigate being the blackest girl in predominately white schools most of my life. _ Lots of insecurities, lots of bullying. I remember my weave ponytail being snatched out on the bus by a white boy in school. (I beat his ass). I was teased for being dark skinned. I didn’t learn to love my blackness fully until later in life. _ I don’t want her to do all this unlearning I’ve had to do in my 20s. I want to break the generational curses so she won’t have to. I will be the one to give us generational wealth. I know I’m accepting a lot of responsibility but that’s the beauty of what she’s given me. LIFE. She made me realize that we need more. We deserve more. And we will have it.
#My9things #MadMilfy Edition- I’m happiest when: 1. I cooked for myself 🥘 2. There’s drank involved 🍷 3. I’m lathered in @zeninajar 🧴 4. I have a new book to jump into. (Just finished the Mastery of Love) 📖 5. I’m air drying after a bubble bath 🛁 6. I have a successful wash & go 💆🏾‍♀️ 7. I have new candles & a new playlist to bump🕯 8. Kennedy’s in the bed by 8:30 😴 9. I have a reason to put on lingerie (ps- I need no reason at all) 💅🏾